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FOR HIS FRIENDS

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TO ALL MY LADIES, FOR THE HOMIES! This long note is totally written on impulse so please do not take offence. My female mind was fast forwarding to the future as usual and instead of the usual romantic-filled day dreams, I had an unsettling realization this dawn. Truth be told, I was momentarily taken aback because in-laws are the ones normally known to give this buzz of complaints (truth hurts, huh?). As such, I was baffled at the guilt that plagued me after my sub-conscious person prompted me that all my effervescent daydreams had one thing in common: ‘The self-interested, albeit unconscious, omission of the presence and importance of the ‘homies’ in my future husband’s life.’ Ladies, it is possible that any of your man’s (husband, fiancé, boyfriend) friends (aka Homies) will not like you for a reason as bizarre as, ‘She has taken over the life of our ‘best friend’ completely without any room for us.’ I earnestly hope not but if this déjà vu happens to be real, the